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personal
Posts filed under personal. A small cluster of related thoughts from the den.
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Back to blog- The Futures That Quietly Disappeared
On the quiet grief of plans that once felt certain, and the small futures that vanished with love.
- Between Scores and Self
I recently took a BDSM test again — not to be defined by it, but because tests like these offer something: language, shape, a mirror held at an angle you might not have chosen yourself. What I found was less about the result and more about what happens in the space between the question and the answer.
- Shared Worlds
How digital spaces can quietly become places where two lives exist together.
- The Things We Never Got To Do
On the quiet grief of plans that no longer have a future.
- Building Things After Loss
How creating small digital spaces and infrastructure can become a quiet way of rebuilding yourself.
- After the Silence
Reflections on what remains after a meaningful relationship ends, and how love can transform without disappearing.
- Love Without Access
A reflection on a first love - what it meant, what it cost, and why distance was the most loving thing left.